another long distance relationship guidance by Mr. expert in LDR(long distance relationship)

What do you feel when you are waiting with someone to meet him again?

                What I feel when I am waiting, I feel that every minute is like a day, a day is like a week, a week is like a month, and month is like a year, and a year is like a decade. I wait for a long time to our 3^rd anniversary because we meet again after a long waiting. I gonna share to you my last experience.

                Last Sunday (October 7, 2012) we advance celebrated our 3^rd anniversary in Makati city where she was work,  after almost a year of waiting to see her again, it just one night and two days with her. The day within her is like a day with a full fulfillment, like a dream come true and because the prayer has been answered. I wait this time with her, even my brother celebrate his 23^rd  birthday last Saturday, I need to left this celebration and I’ll have to go to Makati for my girlfriend, because my brother can understand me why I do that thing. I am engaging long distance relationship while my brother is always at home so I always see my brother and not like my girlfriend that once in a blue moon to meet her.

go to makati

                From my place CLSU(Central Luzon State University) Science City of Muñoz, Nueva Ecija I need to take a ride in a bus to go to Makati City where my girlfriend is working.

our 3rd anniversary celebration

our 3rd anniversary celebration

                Finally we celebrate our 3^rd anniversary in Star City, but before that we’re going first in the church to give thanks for the prayer that is being answer and those not yet. Woooh those days was full of experience with her. We enjoyed all rides and games in that place. Even the Star shuttle is look like it is dangerous we ride that one, because we don’t want to miss those experiences. I love those day in every minute and every second it is very memorable. I meant that I don’t want the time goes by. If I can stop the hand of the clock I’ll do this, but it is impossible to do.

back to CLSU

                Then 2 days past by with her, then I should go back to my place where I need to go in my class and she are going back to his work again.

Like our current status of relationship “long distance relationship”. Then we meet again trough skype like what we have done in the picture bellow.

The technique in waiting someone is like in this phrase what we hear from the church in that day ” Don’t focus on the pain, just focus on the price”. Because if you focus on the pain you’ll become week in every what you are doing while you are focus on the price you we will become more stronger and stronger in what you are doing. It is applicable in the waiting with someone.

Long Distance Relationship Guidance Songs by Mr. Expert in LDR(long distance relationship)

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I hope that this song will help you to be more you stronger in waiting for someone who are very special to you. Because sometimes we need to face the most painful part of love is waiting with someone, why I said painful? waiting is not easy, many people surrender in this kind of challenge so that they are fall to what is to be, when you are promising in the long distance relationship. When you promise that you can wait, you should wait because those people you make a promise are hoping to you.

How to be faithful in your love one in the long distance relationship

Long Distance Relationship Guidance

long distance relationship guidance

I wrote this steps because this is very effective to me.

Step 1.  Don’t look twice to the other man/woman around you to avoid the interest to those people. Almost of us always do this, when we saw a woman//boy that are very attracted to us that cause of another interest to them so after that, we forget our love one. Pay attention in your love, precious it! If don’t want to loosed them.

long distance relationship guidance

Step 2. Don’t abuse the trust of your partner, just be honest in all your things doing because when you are dishonest you are also become unfaithful in your partner. Sometimes we done wrong things and we fell guilt to this, so we need to hide it, in fact we need to be open to our love one and trust them that they always understand us according to what we’ve done.

long distance relationship guidance

Step 3.  Stay focus on your relationship and not in the other relationship around you. Some people create a third party while their partner is in a long distance apart, we should not do this if you don’t want to do this by your love one.

long distance relationship guidance

Step 4.  Avoid the temptation around you. By avoiding this you are avoiding the negative things  that will be going in your mind.

long distance relationship guidance

Step 5. Keep your love wild fire. Stay interested in your love by always communicating him in the right time. Always care about the relationship in both of you.

long distance relationship guidance

What if your girlfriend or boyfriend is trying to sleep to other while engaging Long Distance Relationship? What decision you can do? Mr. Expert in LDR(long distance relationship)

Long Distance Relationship Guidance

long distance relationship guidance

If your girlfriend or boyfriend is doing this so it means the relation between you is not value to him. Try to figure out if this scenario happens to you. This makes a war relationship.

In that situation you have only two options

-Accept the fact and try to forget it.

-End the relation between the two of you.

If you chose the first one then you need to become stronger than strongest because you need to accept the fact and stop blaming yourself or your love one. Because to forgive is to forget. After this you’ll be fine if you’ve forgive him.

If you try to end the relationship then forget everything between you and your love one. You maybe suffer for a while but after a few weeks, months or year you’ll be fine and you will forget the bad things happened to you.

Both of this option has ban effect and good effects to you according to your perception in love.

tips and inspirational message in Long Distance Relationship. Mr. Expert in LDR(long distance relationship)Part 3

Long Distance Relationship Guidance

long distance relationship guidance

When you feel that you are getting tired of waiting your love one. Then just follow those tips bellow:

1. Just look those happy moment pictures with him. And plant to your head that this man/woman is the one that I need so that You'll be waiting of him, no matter how long it takes.
2. Listen or sing the music that reminds of him so you could forget you tiredness.
3. Make plan list that you will do when he/she came back. So that you can re-boost your excitement to him.
4. Set in your mind that true love waits.
5. Last but not the least always pray him because when you pray someone it means you'll treasure him.

tips and inspirational message about our Long Distance Relationship. Part 2

Long Distance Relationship Guidance

"long distance relationship guidance"

1. If you feel that your love one is too busy in his/her work and don’t have any time for you to text you or even to call you just try to open it to his/her and understand his/her situation and not think about negative things because it will be destroying your relationship.

2. When the times comes that you fell that your love is loosing, your love one so It is not a love because love it a faith.

3. When you get booring to your long distance relationship just make new relationship that is closer to you like peet relationship that forget your problems about LDR but never forget your relationship with someone who are faithful to you.

4. When you feel that you are all alone, just take a look at the spaces between your fingers, so that you remember that in those spaces you can see his/her fingers locked with yours forever.

5. And last but not the least true Lover is never broke to the Long Distance Relationship.

tips and inspirational message about our Long Distance Relationship by Mr. Expert in LDR(long distance relationship) Part 1

long distance relationship 

1. “Distance is not hindrance to the both lover who are truth to each other…"

2. “Love is always on the Distance and Distance measures the true love…”

3. “Don’t be bother if you are engaging the long distance relationship with someone you’ve trusted but appreciate it because it makes sense your relationship with someone… ”

4. “The Real men stay faithful. They don't have time to look for other women, because they are too busy loving the one they have…”

5. “I don't care about loosing my sleep, if it means I get to talk to my love all night”

Introduction in Long Distance Relationship Guidance

Long Distance Relationship Guidance

long distance relationship

Introduction about Long Distance Relationship,

Many of us are engaging this kind of relationship and also I'm one who are engaging this kind of relationship so that I make a blog that I can call LDR tips. Hmm this kind of relationship is not easy to accept but like me I should  accept it  when those days came to us and I assume this as challenge our relationship.

Me and my girlfriend is also been closer from each other, no days to past that we do not see each other, from October 9, 2009 this is the day that girlfriend answer my request to be came her boyfriend. But when she graduated from our University she left me all along and goes for work in Makati City that is so far away from me. It’s been 4 months when she left me, It is very difficult to understand why those day are came for us. Sometimes I blame myself because I am his man but she are the first in us who are working for our future.

And every day of my life is a suffering because I always miss my girlfriend . But suddenly I realize that this is only a challenge to us after we overcome this challenge, we assure that our relationship is going stronger and stronger and going too far more than our distance today. That’s why I created this blog to help those people like me, that facing this Long Distance Relationship.